This is a snippet of an interview Queen Bey did with Brown Sista Magazine, where she speaks on her marriage (well not so much) and relationships in general
You and Jay-Z never speak about your relationship…
B – I don’t talk about my relationship with anyone. I feel like it’s important to keep certain things private.
Will it be ruined if you talk about it?
B – No, I just choose not to talk about anything too personal. I won’t talk about the kind of cars I drive or how much money I make. You wouldn’t tell a person that you don’t know those kind of things and I’m not going to tell the world.
Did you worry people wouldn’t want to date you because your famous?
B – Maybe some people, but I wasn’t scared of that because I feel that I have way more to offer than just being famous. I think that once people meet me and get to know me, you forget that I’m famous.
[Peep the look on Jay's face as she's scarfing down that food, signs of true married couple]
Do you think its important for a man to please a woman, as well as the other way around?
B – Yeah, definitely. I think its natural for women to sacrifice themselves in a relationship, but when you do that too much, you lose yourself. Before you know it, you don’t even know what you like anymore. You have to remember that you can depend on yourself, and go with your instincts. You don’t have to lose everything just to please the other person because its just as important that your happy. But sometimes we get so into pleasing the guy we don’t think, ‘are we really happy?’
I think she’s completely on target with last question so often I just want to be a super partner, not realizing I’m pushing my own feelings aside or purposely pushing my feelings aside to please my partner. And I like how she gives that question we all have to ask ourselves “are we really happy?”
Here is a leak of “Slow Love” a possible “I am…” Platinum addition track
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